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Would you believe it if I told you that nearly 40% of U.S. children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents. (“The Chronicle of Evidence Based Mentoring November 2023”)
Furthermore, according to CDC.gov, a major component of the Department of Health and Human Services that works 24/7 to protect the health, safety, and security of the American people, Cognitive Behavior Therapy focuses on changing the thoughts and emotions that can affect a child’s behavior negatively. The therapist helps the child become aware of their thoughts and feelings. The best treatment for children is, “Cognitive Behavior Therapy” and that’s what we’re all about.
Now think about it, are we just discussing children? Under 18? No, the answer is a big no, a child can be of any age. Right?
Moms and Dads think that by taking their child to a traditional therapist their child’s attitude will magically change. But, the answer is, sorry folks, it doesn’t. If it did then why is it that 40% of U.S. children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents.
Let me begin by saying that children need the proper education to learn what a healthy relationship is in order to lead a healthy life. They need to challenge their thought processes, learn new techniques, master them, and take control of their emotions.
Our method not only works for children but also works well between any and all relationships. Just as you spend time trying to learn how to cook, a successful “Child’s Behavior” has its own ingredients also. And that’s what we’re all about! We have those ingredients, and we share them with you! Act upon them yourself and teach others.
Introduction to the “Child Attitude Coach”
How Do You Implement this Program, and How to Get Certified?
Watch video: https://childattitudecoach.com/intro
Once completed and submitted, and once corrected, you’ll earn your certificate. Please visit https://childattitudecoach.com/xxxx (once you join you’ll receive the link to submit your work.) and follow the instructions. Please make sure to have all your work done and submit it together. By that I mean all modules. Please use the workbooks for each module. You may download them at: https://www.childattitudecoach.com/xxxx (once you join you’ll receive the link.)
Now you are ready to coach your own kids or others. Make sure to use the intake form before you begin. You may learn all about it and download it here: https://childattitudecoach.com/xxxx (once you join you’ll receive the link.)
Make sure to join our facebook page. An invitation will be send to you. This is where we all share our experiences with one another including doing a “Confession.” Please visit https://childattitudecoach.com/xxxx (once you join you’ll receive the link.) to request an invitation. Must be enrolled in our program.
All the best to you, your family, your clients, and your business.
Constantine Tannous, PhD
Founder & CEO
Child Attitude Coach Intake Form
You Are Your First Client
Practice! You Are the Child!
Today’s Date: __________________
Full Name: ________________________________ State: ________________
Address: __________________________________ City: ________________ Zip code: _______
Phone# __________________________________
What is a good time to contact you? __________________
Emergency Contact Person: ______________________________ Phone: _______________
Name of Spouse: _____________________ Will he/she participate? Yes ____ No ____
How old are you? ________ Spouse? _________
How many children? _____ Age(s) ______________________________
Their names: _________________________________
_______________________________________________
Quick Notes
(Who is the one giving them trouble?)
WHAT DO YOU FEEL ARE THE CRITICAL OR CRISIS ISSUES
With Your Child’s Behavior? This is what we’ll be working on!
Issues From Module 1 – Attitudes
Circle All That Applies. This is all about the child.
Truthful Is he/she always honest? | Yes ___ No ___ | Comments |
Dependable Is he/she always responsible? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Zealous Is he/she always enthusiastic? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Open Mindedness Is he/she always open minded towards new things? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Humble Is he/she humble? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Kindhearted Is he/she always kind? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Being Neutral Is he/she always objective? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Appreciation Is he/she always thankful? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 2 – Your Logical Thoughts
Circle All That Applies
ISSUE |
| COMMENTS |
Thinking the Worst Negative thoughts? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Unconditional Thinker Believing there is only one solution! | Yes_____ No______ |
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Blaming Tend to blame others rather than taking responsibility? | Yes_____ No______ |
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You Should Uses often? | Yes_____ No______ |
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I Can’t Making excuses for not doing something? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Grandiose Questions asking questions to put others down? | Yes_____ No______ |
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It’s Them Places an act on others? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Loaded Words The use of offensive words to express anger? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Making Assumptions Without knowing all the facts? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Have to Need to, Must There are no other options? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 3 – Your Unlawful Thoughts
Circle All That Applies
ISSUE |
| COMMENTS |
Entitlement I am entitled to all things because it is who I am after all I’ve been through? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Power Orientation You act with power and authority. “My way or the highway”? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Cut Off The heck with It I’m out of here? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Easing Through Thoughts / Mollify Making excuses to ease a wrongful act? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Super Optimism Try to reach for the stars? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Discontinuity Not finishing the task at hand because of something else? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Sentimentality Acting in a manner to look good even if wrong? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Cognitive Indolence Lazy with your thoughts? Don’t like to stress out! | Yes_____ No______ |
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Issues From Module 4 – Communications
Circle All That Applies
Issue |
| Comments |
Passive Communicator Prioritizes the needs, values, and opinions of others over your own? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Passive Aggressive Express your anger or unhappiness in a subtle way? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Aggressive Communicate in a way that disregards the feelings and wants of others? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Assertive Expressing yourself in a direct manner? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Good Listener Pay attention when spoken to? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Confront & Level Are you good at it? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 5 – Drugs & Alcohol
Circle All That Applies
Issue |
| Comments |
Drugs and Alcohol Being used? | Yes_____ No______ |
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First Use of Drugs | Yes_____ No______ |
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Drugs, Alcohol, and Your Health | Yes_____ No______ |
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Damaging Consequences Tell me what happened? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Outside Help to Drugs and Alcoholism | Yes_____ No______ |
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The Benefits to Change Do you understand the benefits? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 6 – Anger
Circle All That Applies
Issue |
| Comments |
My Hot Spots What makes him/her angry? | Yes_____ No______ |
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What Triggers Anger? Jealousy? Communications? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Anger and Your Health What happens after an anger episode? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Anger Management Have you attended? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Anger Be Gone How to get rid of it? | Yes_____ No______ |
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My Anger Plan Do you have a plan? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Strategies for Controlling Anger Have you studied? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 7 – Balanced Lifestyle
Circle All That Applies
Issue |
| Comments |
Live a Life of Balance Are all aspects of his/her life in balance? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Good Health Good health? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Healthy Emotions How are his/her emotions? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Bad Work Habits Is he/she responsible at work? | Yes_____ No______ |
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A Healthy Job Does he/she like their job? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Community Involvement Is he/she involved? | Yes_____ No______ |
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Notes
Issues From Module 8 – Relationships
Circle All That Applies
Issue |
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Healthy Relationships | Yes_____ No______
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Respect in a Relationship | Yes_____ No______
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What is Love? | Yes_____ No______
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Bad Relationships | Yes_____ No______
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Neglecting Others | Yes_____ No______
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Being Selfish | Yes_____ No______
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Low Self Esteem | Yes_____ No______
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Self-Pity | Yes_____ No______
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Jealousy | Yes_____ No______
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The Dominator | Yes_____ No______
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The Bully | Yes_____ No______
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Manipulating Others | Yes_____ No______
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Grandiosity | Yes_____ No______
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I Am Better Than You | Yes_____ No______
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Abandoned as a Child | Yes_____ No______
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Abandoned by My Children | Yes_____ No______
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Forgiving Others | Yes_____ No______
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Letting Go of Resentment | Yes_____ No______
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Notes
First Meeting
This is a good script to use with your client. READ ON——>
Would you believe it if I told you that nearly 40% of U.S. children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents. (“The Chronicle of Evidence Based Mentoring November 2023”)
Furthermore, according to CDC.gov, a major component of the Department of Health and Human Services that works 24/7 to protect the health, safety, and security of the American people, Cognitive Behavior Therapy focuses on changing the thoughts and emotions that can affect a child’s behavior negatively. The therapist helps the child become aware of their thoughts and feelings. The best treatment for children is, “Cognitive Behavior Therapy” and that’s what we’re all about.
Now think about it, are we just discussing children? Under 18? No, the answer is a big no, a child can be of any age. Right?
Moms and Dads think that by taking their child to a traditional therapist thing will magically work out. But, the answer is, sorry folks, it doesn’t. If it did then why is it that 40% of U.S. children lack strong emotional bonds with their parents.
Let me begin by saying that children need the proper education to learn what a healthy relationship is in order to lead a healthy life. They need to challenge their thought processes, learn new techniques, master them, and take control of their emotions.
Our method not only works for children but also works well between any and all relationships. Just as you spend time trying to learn how to cook, a successful “Child’s Behavior” has its own ingredients also. And that’s what we’re all about! We have those ingredients, and we share them with you! Act upon them yourself and teach others.
Meeting Your Client
You: Hello John, I’m glad to meet you and I want to assure you that I am able to help you with your child’s behavior. What I’d like to do is tell you a little about myself, my training, and my certification. I will then spend some time with you asking you a series of questions on our “Intake Form”. After getting to know and understand your situation, I will then present you with the solutions. I will inform you of the cost. And if you like what I showed you, then we can begin your journey into a “Healthy Child Attitude Behaviors.” If you decide not to engage me to be your child coach, that’s fine. At least we have met one another, you know what I do, how much it costs, and how I can help you, and I would appreciate your business anytime. Fair enough?
John: Yes!
You: John, the company I studied with and got certified by is called Child Attitude’s Coach. The CEO of the company is Dr. George Constantine Tannous. He holds his PhD degree in, and of course you guessed it, “Counseling.” Dr. Tannous has counseled many in his past and at one time he was the Chairperson, over the tutor’s committee of the RDAP program for the Federal Bureau of Prisons. His job was to preside over 160 inmates to help them with their studies in “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy” in order to reduce recidivism. And the program works. Recidivism means to reduce the outcome of relapsing into committing another crime and ending back in prison. It is what he calls, “Crime Reduction Program.” It’s great don’t you agree? (Wait for a response.)
And John, according to CDC.Gov, “Cognitive Behavior Therapy” focuses on changing the thoughts and emotions that can affect a child’s behavior negatively. The therapist helps the child become aware of their thoughts and feelings. The best treatment for children is, “Cognitive Behavior Therapy” and that’s what we’re all about.
John, would you be kind enough to tell me about the main struggles with your child. (At this time take notes and be a great active listener.)
John: Well, little Johnny never listens to me. He is very careless about his responsibilities around the house. He always blames his other siblings.
You: I see. Thanks for sharing that with me. I am able to help you with that. I will guide you and Johnny towards a healthier relationship. Is that what you’d like to see happen?
John: You can say so!
You: (Take out the intake work papers and proceed.) John, at this point I want to narrow down the struggling behaviors. Let’s begin.
Start asking all of the questions on the intake form and take notes. Once finished, you’ll be surprised at all of the answers. Trust me on this one. Make sure to ask many questions.
You: Wow John, I can see why the relationship struggles. Without improving all of the bad attitudes, rational thinking errors, communicating with one another properly, to confront and level, and in understanding all the ingredients to a healthy relationship, your relationship will continue to struggle, and little Johnny will carry his present attitudes into the future.
In order to have a healthy relationship whether it be with your spouse, your kids, your friends, people at work and so on, you need to become a master at all of the ingredients that work.
Furthermore, if you engage me, not only will you study, learn and understand the secrets to “Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and as you now it is the only solution for kids according to the CDC as discussed earlier, but, you’ll become a “Certified Child Attitude Coach” as well and can also begin your own business. How does that sound?
John: Hmmm, it sounds great. But how long will it take, and how much does it cost?
You: There are about 69 topics. Would you consider yourself a fast learner?
John: Yes
You: Okay great. Let’s try five topics a week. One per day. You’ll need to read each topic at least three times to fully understand it. You’ll need to write your essays and answer all of the questions. We will meet weekly. You’ll turn in all of your homework. We will discuss any questions you might have, and we’ll discuss the upcoming week’s assignments. At that rate, then 69/5 equals 14 so it will take us 14 weeks to complete. Sounds good?
John: Yes, but how much is it?
You: John aside from the cost and how it can fit into your budget, do you have any questions?
John: No!
You: So, if I told you it cost you nothing, you would want to get started right away?
John: Of course!
You: I wish I could do that. But our rates are between $50 to $150 per session. Will you be able to afford $75 per session?
Proceed from there and fill out the “Engagement Agreement”
Congratulations on your first client!
The session is about 45 minutes long. But let’s use one hour. So, if you engage 20 clients. You’ll be busy for half a year. Let’s have a look at the income:
20 (clients per week) * $75 each*52 weeks = $78,000 per year part time. You can work half the time as reflected above. Full time = 78,000*2=$156,000. If you charge $150 per hour then that’s $312,000 per year.
Welcome to your new career,
Dr. G. Constantine Tannous